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How to Talk to Your Kids About Religion?
Congratulations: your child has finally reached an age where you can communicate with them directly. When they first learn to speak, it will take forever before that mouth ever stops moving again. With all that gabbing comes conversations of every topic, essential or otherwise. The more they witness in the world, there’s one discussion you may dread having: talking to your kids about religion. Your trepidation may not come from disinterest or disgust but rather doubt that you can convey its importance well. If adults struggle to grasp the concepts of faith, how could a child?
Rest assured: you’re not alone in your nervousness, but nor are you incapable of tackling the challenge. If the little children came flocking to Jesus, He could provide a plan to equip you when yours follow suit.
When to Talk to Your Kids About Religion
Let’s take one concern off of your plate: the perfect time to talk with your kid about faith does not exist. Choosing one time, day, or age over another does not guarantee success. Does that mean all attempts to do so are doomed to fail? Of course not – it only lessens the stress by leveling the playing field. All conversations have the opportunity to prosper. That does not, however, mean they possess an equal opportunity to prosper. Children will more readily retain and comprehend information at specific points. Honing into these openings can make for compelling, meaningful conversation.
Between the ages of 4 and 6, children will start taking notice of essential topics like religion. Speaking to them at this point will allow them to voice their thoughts and remain open to yours without difficulty. Any earlier, however, and their brains may not have developed to a viable point for such an in-depth subject. Before you talk, be sure that your child has eaten and slept well. If not, you may find them nodding off or eyeing the cookie jar halfway into your explanation.
No matter how much you may try to schedule it, be aware that you’re not the only one in control here. Kids can start these conversations at any point in time. Prepare yourself as soon as possible to prevent any unexpected circumstances.
Where to Talk to Your Kids About Religion
Even once you work up the nerve to talk, you may have no idea where to converse. Holding these discussions in the right place can increase your child’s retention and attention rates. Take them somewhere familiar, somewhere that makes them feel safe. This instinctual comfort will cause you both to drop your guards and open opportunities for honesty. Refrain from explaining religion for the first time in public. Not only will you feel as though every eye is on you, they very well maybe. Our modern-day world deems faith as a controversial topic, and some would silence its spread.
You never know who may want to interfere with this conversation. With such a sensitive and integral subject, it’s essential to protect your child from unpleasant interactions. Private settings also allow children to feel comfortable speaking their minds without an audience. Kids and teenagers alike fall prey to peer pressure, especially in public. Confidentiality gives them the confidence to speak without inhibition. Even if you have the ideal destination in mind, your child may circumvent your schedule with an ill-timed question. Be ready to hold discussions wherever you go or to redirect them when in inopportune environments seamlessly.
Why You Should Talk to Your Kids About Religion
You have to pour into this conversation; you may wonder whether it’s worthwhile. While children undoubtedly need to accept the faith of their discretion, that does not discredit the contributions of their parents. Do you remember Solomon’s wisdom from Proverbs 22:6?
“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Even kings of old knew that childhood influences determine adult decisions. As parents, our impartation can directly impact the outcome of our children’s lives. It is not our mission to enforce our ideals on our children. However, we are responsible for showing them the paths towards health we have walked – faith first and foremost.
Information bombards our children daily from every source: news, neighbors, schools, social media, you name it. With so much negativity conveyed to them, wouldn’t we want to provide them with something eternally, unshakably positive?
How to Talk to Your Kids About Religion
With the timeframe, place, and purpose all determined, only one thing remains to decide. We must strategize how to break down something as all-encompassing as a religion for someone still learning to read. Every child has distinct preferences, personalities, and learning styles. Identifying what puts your child at ease can help open the door for deeper conversation. Utilizing their learning style makes sure the subject matter sticks.
It may disappoint you to know that no one-size-fits-all formula exists for talking to kids about faith. The good news is that parents don’t need a formula because they understand their children better than any statistics could. If you’re still unsure, there are general guidelines to utilize so that conversation flows smoothly.
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